actually by lesley

Because Love actually is ~ all there is and all around us!

A wedding is huge.
A funeral is huge.

But sometimes, it’s a wonderfully ridiculous, good old funny family story that ought never be repeated, an anniversary, a celebration or simply a reason to hang together and remember that ~ ‘Life’ ~ in all its glory really is a thing.

All the big stuff ~ the little stuff ~ the good stuff and everything that happens in between.

A wedding is more than legal paperwork and pretty outfits. It’s a special moment where two beautiful hearts become one, witnessed by the people they love.

It ought to feel naturally genuine and full of character, with plenty of heart.

I’ll guide you through the process and bring your story to life with a touch of humour and a little help from the Universe, sprinkling some stardust, sparkle and magic along the way!

There’s a little more to me so head on over to www.loveactuallybylesley.com.au – (website coming soon).

I’ll see you over there.

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Funerals

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For over 16 years, I have walked alongside families across Melbourne during some of life’s most difficult times. I work closely with local funeral homes to design and lead heartfelt, personalised ceremonies that truly honour your loved one and reflect the person they were, in a way that feels authentic, genuine, meaningful and right for your family.

When it comes to saying goodbye, I firmly believe there is no single right way.

Every life deserves to be celebrated, and every family’s needs are unique. Whether you envision a service that is traditional and familiar, or one that is contemporary, spiritual, beautifully simple, or entirely outside the box, your wishes, values and memories are my guide.

I’m simply saying, I’m here, I understand, I know how to navigate the details, and above all, I listen. Together, we create something truly special by gathering the stories, the laughter, the quirks, and weaving them into a genuine, respectful farewell that feels exactly right for you.

And the ceremony doesn’t have to be confined to a chapel. We use beautiful reflection precincts from botanical gardens, picturesque lakesides and beaches, to galleries, private homes, historic properties, RSLs, bowling and football clubs, racetrack venues, memorial parks, private in-home services or a simple graveside farewell.

 

 

Words from the Heart:

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L says...

“Dear, Dear Lesley Just wanted to say thank you so much for yesterday, you made the service!!! You have such a special talent and was just made for our family. We had so many people come and tell us what a great service it was, and you played a big part in that laughter & tears; Dad would have loved it. Did you notice all the thunder and lightning? WOW, the universe really let us know that Dad & Mum are making up for lost time. Anyway, just wanted to let you know how fantastic I think you are. L xxxxxx”

J Says

“Hello Lesley, I would just like to thank you for arranging the ceremony for my darling wife K. The whole ceremony was beautifully and professionally arranged. I will always remember it as a sad but most of all, a beautiful day. The way you Lesley took the time to talk to me, R and M so that we had a good chance to explain who K was, was fantastic. It was really important to me that it turned out the way K would have wanted it, and I’m sure that she would have been pleased. Kind regards, J”

G’s nephew and Godson G.D...

“To Dearest Leslie, I am writing to you to thank you for completing a fabulous and brilliant ceremony and celebration for G.B. Everyone thought the same thing. I would rate the ceremony 10/10! I believe my Aunty G would have been wonderfully excited about what you did for her. Also, thank you for the support and encouragement you gave me after the ceremony. I know my Aunty would have been very proud of me for what I did and said about her. P.S; Everyone loved and talked about the mobile phone part of the ceremony, it was very clever! Congratulations, you are an inspiration Leslie. You’re a wonderful human being, and there should be more people out there like you! Love, G’s nephew and Godson G.D. xoxoxo”

L says...

“Lesley, Lesley, Lesley. Thank you, thank you thank you for everything! You made A’s farewell so memorable. The service and your heartfelt words were all sensational. I’m sure A would have loved it. We had so many positive comments about the pink casket and especially the signing of it. People thought that it was unique and a great idea. As hard as it was to say goodbye and as difficult as it was, you made it more bearable, especially your beautiful reassurances to Dad and Mum. Again, thank you on behalf of all the family for the wonderful tributes and personal touch on A’s day. Love L X”

K says...

“Hi Lesley, I wanted to thank you so much for the effort you put into mum’s service, not only with very short notice, but with such obvious understanding and a uniqueness that made the tributes beautiful. I very much appreciate you including and acknowledging my Auntie Mary, she was so happy, as was I, with the final tributes that were put together to celebrate mum’s life and bid her farewell.

On a more personal note, I loved that you immediately understood my way….my humour in the face of a stressful situation and what I was trying to achieve, without question! Mum would have loved your colour and expression, and I think you were the perfect choice (albeit by chance), to help us say goodbye. Kind Regards K.”

C says...

“Lesley, Just wanted to thank you from the bottom of my heart for being alongside me at the hardest part of my life, assisting and guiding and allowing me to grieve the way I needed. You have made this journey a lot more bearable due to your compassion, empathy, professionalism and just your care and devotion to looking after my better half. S would have been so happy that he and I were in such good hands.

Again, thank you so much. God bless you Xx.”

A says...

“Hi Lesley, I just wanted to take the time to thank you again for conducting such a beautiful service for my darling Baby boy. You were so lovely, and I warmed to you immediately. I feel that you are a very spiritual person and that you were exactly right both for my baby and me. You are a special person, and I will never forget you. X A.”

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